who are you when no ones watching
Friday Khutbah: Who Are You When No One Is Watching?
Part One
الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ نَحْمَدُهُ وَنَسْتَعِينُهُ وَنَسْتَغْفِرُهُ وَنُؤْمِنُ بِهِ وَنَتَوَكَّلُ عَلَيْهِ، وَنَعُوذُ بِاللَّهِ مِنْ شُرُورِ أَنْفُسِنَا وَمِنْ سَيِّئَاتِ أَعْمَالِنَا، مَنْ يَهْدِهِ اللَّهُ فَلَا مُضِلَّ لَهُ، وَمَنْ يُضْلِلْ فَلَا هَادِيَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ.
صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا صَلَّى عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ، وَبَارِكْ عَلَى مُحَمَّدٍ وَعَلَى آلِ مُحَمَّدٍ كَمَا بَارَكْتَ عَلَى إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَعَلَى آلِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ إِنَّكَ حَمِيدٌ مَجِيدٌ.
أَمَّا بَعْدُ:
My dear brothers and sisters, students of faith, future leaders of our Ummah. Today, we gather in the sacred space of this masjid on this blessed day of Jumu’ah. But I want to ask you a question that reaches into the very core of our faith, a question that defines our character not in the spotlight, but in the shadows: Who are you when no one is watching?
In the theater of high school life, there is a constant audience. Teachers watch your grades. Coaches watch your performance. Parents watch your curfew. Friends watch your style, your words, your social media posts. We perform, often consciously, for these audiences. But what happens when the curtain closes? When the classroom is empty, when the phone is put away in the quiet of your room, when you are utterly and completely alone—who is the real you that remains?
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala answers this in the most profound way in Surah Al-Hadid:
أَلَمْ يَعْلَمْ بِأَنَّ اللَّهَ يَرَى
"Does he not know that Allah sees?" (Quran 96:14)
And in Surah Al-Mulk, He says:
وَمَا تَكُونُ فِي شَأْنٍ وَمَا تَتْلُو مِنْهُ مِن قُرْآنٍ وَلَا تَعْمَلُونَ مِنْ عَمَلٍ إِلَّا كُنَّا عَلَيْكُمْ شُهُودًا إِذْ تُفِيضُونَ فِيهِ ۚ وَمَا يَعْزُبُ عَن رَّبِّكَ مِن مِّثْقَالِ ذَرَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ وَلَا أَصْغَرَ مِن ذَٰلِكَ وَلَا أَكْبَرَ إِلَّا فِي كِتَابٍ مُّبِينٍ
"And you are not engaged in any matter or recite any of the Quran or do any deed except that We are witness over you when you are involved in it. And not absent from your Lord is any part of an atom's weight within the earth or within the heaven or [anything] smaller than that or greater but that it is in a clear register." (Quran 67:12)
This, my dear young Muslims, is the ultimate reality check. The true test of Iman (faith) is not on the stage, but backstage. It’s in the choice to close the browser with inappropriate content, even when your internet history is "private." It’s in the decision to put your own answer on the test, even when you could easily glance at your neighbor’s paper without getting caught. It’s in the act of speaking kindly about a classmate you find annoying, when you’re in a group that’s gossiping about them.
The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ laid the foundation for all of this with one of the most famous and pivotal hadith in our religion. He said:
إِنَّمَا الأَعْمَالُ بِالنِّيَّاتِ، وَإِنَّمَا لِكُلِّ امْرِئٍ مَا نَوَى
"Verily, deeds are only by intentions, and every person will have only what they intended." (Sahih al-Bukhari & Muslim)
Your intention—that secret conversation between your heart and Allah—is what gives your action its value. That “like” on a post to help a charity, did you do it for the praise of your followers, or for the pleasure of Allah? That prayer you rushed through in your room before leaving for school, was it a genuine connection, or just a habit you ticked off a list? Allah is watching that intention. The angels are recording it. And you, alone, are responsible for it.
This concept in Islam is called Ikhlas—sincerity, purity of intention. It is the heart of our worship. A small act done with utter sincerity in the unseen is infinitely greater in the scales of Allah than a grand, public act done for show. The great scholar of the heart, Al-Hasan al-Basri, said, "The sin that humbles you is better in the sight of Allah than the good deed that makes you proud."
So, who are you when no one is watching? You are the person whose character is built not by external pressure, but by internal compass. You are the one who understands that the most important witness is not the teacher walking by your desk, but the two angels, Raquib and Atid, sitting on your shoulders, recording every single thing. You are the believer who lives with the profound awareness of Al-Muhsi—The One Who Counts and Records Everything.
Part Two
الْحَمْدُ لِلَّهِ حَمْدًا كَثِيرًا طَيِّبًا مُبَارَكًا فِيهِ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنْ لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، وَأَشْهَدُ أَنَّ مُحَمَّدًا عَبْدُهُ وَرَسُولُهُ. صَلَّى اللَّهُ وَسَلَّمَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْهِ وَعَلَى آلِهِ وَأَصْحَابِهِ أَجْمَعِينَ.
أَمَّا بَعْدُ:
So how do we cultivate this integrity of the unseen? How do we become people who are just as good in private as we are in public?
First, Create a Private Relationship with Allah. This is your spiritual backbone. Beyond the five daily prayers in congregation, have your own private du’a sessions. Talk to Allah in the last third of the night, or in the quiet before Fajr. Confess your struggles, your fears, your secret hopes to Him. When you build that intimate connection, you will never feel truly alone, and you will never want to betray the One who is always watching with love and mercy.
Second, Audit Your Secret Actions. At the end of each day, ask yourself: What did I do today that only Allah saw? Did I secretly help someone by picking up trash no one noticed? Did I suppress an angry curse in traffic when I was alone in the car? Did I turn away from a temptation that nobody would have ever known about?



